“Thanks for 19 years of helping to keep me grounded.”
Excerpts from a Copy of Personal Statement for Admission with Advanced Standing in Medical School sent to Dr. Hedaya
“For the past two and a half years my mother has suffered from a severe and possibly life-threatening depression. Her condition was life-threatening not only because of a desire for death but until recently she literally did not sleep and ate only when coerced. During my first year of medical school, she deteriorated and her weight plummeted from 170 to 95 pounds. At that point, I knew that I needed to take time off to help her or she could die. Over the last couple of months, my mother has undergone a metamorphosis and has nearly reached complete remission. For this remarkable turnaround, I credit the skill and expertise of her psychiatrist and family support.
“During this past year, I have been the full-time caretaker of my mother. Playing this role has been challenging for me, but it has taught me many things, both about myself and about the art and science of medicine. In certain ways, I feel that this time has been a continuation of my journey towards becoming a doctor, which has been the most fulfilling stage of my life.
“While the path ahead is daunting, I am excited about the possibility of continuing my medical education at Georgetown. The Jesuit tradition of cura personalis reflects my own philosophy concerning health and disease. Dr. Robert Hedaya, my mother’s psychiatrist and a clinical professor of psychiatry at Georgetown, truly embodies this principle. He has been a superb role model to me in how to deliver comprehensive patient-centered care. Whereas her previous psychiatrist had evaluated her mood, cognition, and behavior and then prescribed medication unsuccessfully; Dr. Hedaya used a wide lens to determine other variables that affected her health. He found a tryptophan deficiency, a low thyroid level, low B12, low iron, an exhausted adrenal gland, bacterial and fungal infections and dehydration. Before prescribing any medication, he ordered nutritional supplements and fluids to correct the ravages of her starvation. His expertise and skill did not arise in a vacuum. He has become a great doctor by continuing his medical education in fields such as psychopharmacology, endocrinology, nutrition, and biological psychiatry and applying these studies to his practice. He has gone beyond what a typical psychiatrist is expected to know and he sees each patient as a unique individual with unique needs. It is my hope that with the marvelous and comprehensive training at Georgetown, I can one day become a superlative physician like Dr. Hedaya.
I am a college student in Illinois and am in the middle of constructing a research paper on medicating depression. I chose the topic because one of my best friends was diagnosed depressive a few years back, and took SSRIs to combat it until recently. He was complaining that the drugs made him feel very emotionally numb, and decided to take himself off them just a year ago. However, he’s been having a very difficult time coping with stress since then, so I wanted to see what I could discover to help him make an educated decision on whether to restart treatment or not.
“I checked your book, The Antidepressant Survival Guide, out of my local library, and I was astonished by what I read. At the time my friend was on Paxil, he wasn’t receiving any other care or advice- no therapy, dietary advice- no nothing. It never occurred to him or me that there might be a way to combat the problems that came with his medication; we were thinking of them as a necessary evil.”
“I just wanted to update you on Jonathan. You may remember that we came down last June to have you help us with his anxiety. He has been anxiety free for the entire year and also had a huge spiritual awakening this last semester at school which has changed him greatly. Thank you so much for the great work that you do And I do believe he is a success but only time will tell.”
“Again, your attention to her needs is greatly appreciated. We were lucky to find you. It is astonishing that she saw so many providers, and not a single person was able to pull everything together the way you have. She has been told so many times that there is nothing wrong (labs are normal, you should have no trouble running now, it’s characterological, etc.), so even if you had not devised a treatment plan, just having validation of her pain and difficulty has been therapeutic. You really are a medical detective!”
“Thank you so much for being available to me last night when I was so terrified.”
“It is the end of the year and we were remembering all the ways in which you have helped put me on the road to wellness. I continue to follow your supplement regimen. I also practice the Kabat-Zinn tapes every day and they’re helping me move away from stress and tension in my response to life.”
“We really appreciate the nuanced way that you approach everything. Also, you provide a wonderful clinic for patient interaction every time we interact.”
‘We really appreciate the nuanced way that you approach everything. Also, you provide a wonderful clinic for patient interaction every time we interact.’
“After reading your philosophy and approach to treating your patients, you are exactly what I’ve been looking for in a long time.”
“Someday I would love to share with you my experience with psychiatry while I was on active duty. It was a stunning education for me, and based on that experience I vowed that if I ever had a loved one who needed psychiatric assistance, I would never, ever trust them to that system. You have restored my faith in psychiatry, and that feels like a great relief.”
“I am grateful to all of you at Whole Psychiatry. You reach and help more people than you can ever imagine. Your website changed my life.”